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Paced Bottle Feeding – Everything You Need To Know

Being a parent is all about adapting to changes and transitions. Milestones, as they are often referred to, are significant changes in your baby’s cognitive, developmental, and motor skills. From sleeping through the night to sitting up, milestones are exciting transitions for both a baby and parents. A significant milestone for exclusively breastfed babies is the transition into bottle feeding. There are many reasons why a baby who is exclusively breastfeeding may need to transition into bottle feeding. Paced bottle feeding is a technique that makes this change easier for both baby and mom.

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What is Paced Bottle Feeding?

Paced bottle feeding is a method used to help transition babies from breastfeeding to eating through a bottle. This technique mimics the flow of milk, similar to breastfeeding and can help ensure a smooth transition. As breastfeeding mamas know, the flow of milk through a breast is very different from that of a bottle. There are many bottles available to help transition your baby comfortably. However, using the paced bottle feeding technique can help your baby adjust to this new way of feeding.

This method allows your baby to drink until they are full, very similar to breastfeeding. By using this method, your baby may not finish the entire bottle right away. However, as you and your baby establish a consistent feeding routine, you will know how to adjust the amount of milk you are serving correctly.


How to Introduce Paced Bottle Feeding to Baby

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 The first step to beginning paced bottle feeding your baby is to find the right bottle. There are many different brands that market a “natural” feel or nipple to babies transition from breast to bottle. Truth be told, since every baby is different, finding the right bottle might be through trial and error. There are so many bottles available, and it may be overwhelming trying to find the right one. As with every new process and milestone, patience is a necessity. For my baby and myself, the Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature bottle worked best for us. Not only did it have a nipple that resembled and felt like my own, but there’s also an anti-colic valve. It was also super easy to clean, which is a huge plus!


Following Your Baby’s Cues

After choosing your bottle, it’s time to begin! Paying attention to your baby’s hunger cues is very important when paced bottle feeding. Your baby will show signs of hunger by smacking their lips, turning their head towards your chests (also known as rooting), or by straight up crying! Paced bottle feeding is centered around feeding your baby when they are hungry, rather than on a timed schedule.

When the baby is ready to eat, hold them in an upright position, at a slight incline, and offer the bottle to your baby. This can help prevent colic. You can try to lightly touch the bottle on the baby’s lips. Your baby may refuse but usually, if they are hungry, they will open their mouth and “latch” onto the bottle.

Once the baby is latched on, here’s where the paced bottle feeding method comes into play. By keeping the bottle in a horizontal position, the baby controls the flow of milk. Try alternating the flow, by not letting the milk reach the nipple, similar to the flow of breastmilk. Try to mimic a breastfeeding session as much as possible, switching baby to a different side and letting them stop for a break. Not only does this help the transition from breast to bottle, but the paced bottle feeding technique will help your baby recognize when they are full, which they will show signs of by maybe opening a closed fist, falling asleep, or giving up the bottle altogether.


Patience is Key 

Similar to breastfeeding, don’t expect your baby to gulp down a bottle in one sitting. Patience is vital when with this method, as not only is it a new process, but the goal is to mimic breastfeeding as much as possible, especially if you’re transitioning from exclusively breastfeeding to bottle feeding. It can be frustrating when your baby doesn’t take to the bottle right away. You may need to consider trying a different bottle or waiting for the baby to give those cues that they’re really hungry. If you ever have questions or concerns that your baby isn’t eating properly or enough, we recommend consulting your pediatrician or a lactation consultant.


The Benefits of Paced Bottle Feeding

There are many reasons why a mom should consider using the paced bottle feeding method to transition her baby to use bottles. For a mama that has to go back to work after being on maternity leave and has been exclusively breastfeeding, she may consider pumping breast milk to give her baby while she is away and transitioning to a bottle is necessary when the baby is left in someone else’s care.


Don’t Waste Precious Milk

Paced bottle feeding is also great for formula-fed babies. Since it’s more of a “baby-led” technique, this method helps avoid over or underfeeding baby. Both formula and breastmilk are extremely valuable. Not only do you want to make sure that the baby is getting enough nutrients so that they can thrive and grow, but paced bottle feeding also helps make sure that you’re not wasting any precious milk by over-serving the baby. You may have some instances where you’re over or under serving milk at first, but one of the many benefits of paced bottle feeding is that you establish a feeding routine that’s custom to your baby and eventually can figure out how much they need before they get full.


Understanding Your Breastmilk Supply  

Paced bottle feeding can also help you understand your milk supply if you are breastfeeding. If you’re overfeeding your baby, it can be difficult trying to pump to make up for the extra milk. However, by allowing your baby to lead the process, you can have a better understanding of how much milk they need. This will help you pump the right amount since you produce breastmilk on a supply and demand basis.


Paced Bottle Feeding Aids in Preventing Colic

 Did you know that using the paced bottle feeding technique can also help prevent colic? Yup, you read that right! By using proper positioning, your baby will swallow less air while eating. Therefore creating less gas and discomfort for your baby, (and more sleep for mama!). 


The Benefit of Bonding 

As we all know, breastfeeding is an intimate and unique experience between a mother and her baby. Dads, grandparents, and other caregivers may want to bond similarly with baby, and paced bottle feeding is a great way to do so. Since paced bottle feeding mimics breastfeeding, other caregivers can use this feeding time as their way to create a bond with the baby. 


One of Many Future Milestones

 The paced bottle is a process that transitions your baby to achieving one of many future milestones. Understanding your baby’s cues and patience is a skill worth learning, the results and benefits are totally worth it. Paced bottle feeding helps establish healthy eating habits for the future and can also help others bond with baby similarly (but not exactly) to the way mom and baby bond while breastfeeding. Good luck and enjoy this and all the other milestones you will share with your baby!



Have some questions about feeding? Feel free to list them in the comments! Also, check out our Rookie Moms Facebook Group, it’s a great group of moms where you can share your experiences, ask for advice and even help out another mom!


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Reheating Breastmilk [3 Things You Need To Know!]

You warm up a four-ounce bottle of breastmilk, but your baby only drinks two ounces. Can you reheat the leftover breastmilk or does it have to be tossed? Breastmilk is liquid gold, and we totally understand how upsetting it can be to dump it down the drain!

Reusing and reheating breastmilk is generally not advised. However, there are a few studies showing that it may be safe to an extent, and a few authorities have said it is okay. Let’s break down the risks and safety measures concerning reheating breastmilk.

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1. Bacteria in Breastmilk

When you pump, a small amount of bacteria ends up in your milk inside the bottle. Usually, these bacteria are so few, and due to proper storage in the fridge or freezer, they do not have the opportunity to grow.

Additionally, fresh milk can fight bacteria and remain relatively anti-infective. The longer you store the milk, the less bacteria-fighting power it has.

When you give your baby a bottle, bacteria from your baby’s mouth is now present. As soon as your baby begins sucking, the bottle is contaminated.

If these bacteria multiply, they can harm your baby. This is especially true if your baby is premature, suffering from a pre-existing medical condition, or has a weakened immune system. Warm milk is a breeding ground for bacteria.


2. Proper Preparation

The safety of reheating and reusing the breastmilk is dependent on how you prepare and store it. 

You can prepare a bottle with fresh milk, meaning it has been at room temperature for less than four hours. Another option is using milk that has been in the fridge or frozen.

Babies do not require warm milk, yet most babies prefer it. You can give your baby fresh milk at room temperature and similarly, you can use milk directly from the fridge. If your baby prefers a warm bottle, check out these warmers that are quick and safe!

Our Favorites

  • Kiinde Kozii Bottle Warmer- The Kiinde Kozii’s design has your baby’s health in mind. It warms bottles up just a little slower, but only because overheating can destroy nutrients in breastmilk that you really want your baby to get.

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  • Munchkins Fast Bottle Warmer- Only one thing needs to be said for the Munchkin Warmer; it heats up a bottle in under 90 seconds. That means minimum time to listen to the hungry cry!

Most moms warm their refrigerated or frozen milk. Only use this milk if it meets proper storage guidelines and is not expired. This means it has been in the refrigerator for fewer than five days and in the freezer for fewer than six months.

To warm the milk, you can either run it under warm to hot water or let it sit in a bowl of warm to hot water. The water should not bring the milk to a boil as this will damage the nutrients and healthy bacteria. For the same reason, you should not heat milk in the microwave or oven.

Once the milk is warm, swirl it to mix in any fat and then test a drop on your rest for temperature. As long as the temperature feels fine, the milk is now ready for your baby.


3. What To Do with Leftover Breastmilk

You fed your baby but you still have some milk leftover and you hate to just throw it away. Is it safe to reheat or reuse later? This is where things get tricky.

Recommendations against Reheating Breastmilk

Most pediatricians and organizations advise against reheating or reusing breastmilk. Once the milk has been warmed and given to a baby, the risk for bacterial contamination is high. The CDC advises, “if your baby did not finish the bottle, the leftover breast milk can still be used within 2 hours after the baby is finished feeding. After 2 hours, leftover breast milk should be discarded”[1].

Similarly, Today’s Parent states, “It’s not safe to reheat a bottle of breastmilk”[2]. The thought behind these statements is reheating and reusing the milk it is not worth the risk to your baby’s health. You should dispose of all remaining milk within a two-hour period. 

Other authorities further specify the situations in which you should not reheat milk. If your baby is sick, their immune system is suppressed. They are more susceptible to bad bacteria from milk with any contaminants. If the milk has been previously frozen you should not reheat it (or refreeze it). This is because the freezing process weakens the milk’s bacteria-fighting properties, resulting in an increased bad bacteria count.

Finally, if milk is clearly showing signs of spoilage, you should not reheat it or reuse it. Overall, this approach errs on the side of caution. If your baby has not finished the bottle, it is best to dump the remaining milk along with the contaminating bacteria down the drain.

Recommendations for Reheating Breastmilk

The lack of a sufficient amount of data regarding the reheating and reusing of breastmilk leads others to believe that it may be safe to offer previously warmed milk. It is important to note that these statements are in support of reusing milk but largely ignore or advise against reheating milk.

This is in part because of the time frame in which the previously fed milk should be used. Throw the bottle away if it has been out for 2 hours. 

At room temperature, the bottle should not cool significantly within the two-hour window. Therefore, you should not need to reheat the milk. But is it still safe to use?

Expert Opinions About Reheating Breastmilk

Jan Barger, R.N., M.A., IBCLC states “it would seem to me that expressed breast milk, fed to the baby, partially consumed, and then refrigerated, could be used for one more feeding no more than four hours later. That’s probably fairly conservative,”[3] concluding that bacterial contamination will cause the milk to spoil, but there is no way of knowing how long this will take.

The Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine notes, “Once a baby begins drinking expressed human milk, some bacterial contamination occurs in the milk from the baby’s mouth. The duration of time the milk can be kept at room temperature once the baby has partially fed from the cup or bottle would theoretically depend on the initial bacterial load in the milk, how long the milk has been thawed, and the ambient temperature. There have been no studies done to provide recommendations in this regard. Based on related evidence thus far, it seems reasonable to discard the remaining milk within 1–2 hours after the baby is finished feeding”[3].


The common thread here is that too few studies have been done to conclude officially whether reheating and reusing previously used milk is safe or not. It would appear that as long as the milk was not frozen, your baby is healthy, and you use it within a one to two-hour period, the milk should be safe.


What Should You Do About Reheating Breastmilk?

In the end, what you do with your leftover breastmilk is up to you. There are advocates of, and studies upholding both opinions. If you are worried for any reason that your breastmilk may be harmful to your baby, it is best to toss it.







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Tandem Breastfeeding [Everything Mamas Need to Know!]

I want to start things off by saying breastfeeding is a different journey for every mother. There is no comparing one situation to the next! It is my hope that all mamas get the chance to have a long and happy breastfeeding journey, even if it is hard at first. One tricky situation that you might find yourself in is tandem breastfeeding. We are here to tell you all you need to know about it and hopefully make it seem a bit less daunting. 

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What is Tandem Breastfeeding?

Tandem breastfeeding is when you nurse two of your babies at the same time. It is common among moms of multiples, but may also be used by moms who have children close in age. When nursing twins tandem breastfeeding often means one baby on each breast.  If you are tandem nursing two different aged children you may use tandem nursing in a couple of different ways.

Nursing is often the predominant nutrient source for your infant during their first year of life. This is why if you have another baby, you may still want to nurse your older child. Keep in mind, you may want to nurse your younger baby first. This will ensure that they receive an adequate amount of milk. However, if you are producing too much milk, tandem nursing may actually benefit you. You can tandem breastfeed your toddler to reduce engorgement when your baby is done nursing or in between sessions.

Another reason to tandem breastfeed is if you have a fast letdown. Some infants can struggle with a fast-letdown and have difficulty latching. A toddler may be better able to handle the letdown until it subsides at which point the infant may then be nursed.


Will I Like Tandem Nursing?

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Whether or not you will like tandem nursing is largely dependent on your lifestyle and personality. Tandem nursing can be difficult, especially at first. You are learning to adjust to a new baby and will still be required to meet the nursing demands of your toddler. If you are nursing twins, you will have to manage the schedule and demands of two infants. Tandem nursing can be overwhelming in either scenario, but worth the struggle in the end!

Tandem nursing certainly has benefits. After a period of time, you will probably get your children on a regulated schedule and nursing will not be exceedingly time-consuming. Of course, there are innumerable health and emotional benefits associated with breastfeeding. There are also positive aspects when nursing an infant and toddler. You will be able to connect with both your children and your toddler and infant will be able to bond through nursing as well. In addition, continuing breastfeeding your toddler will help to sustain some semblance of your routine pre-baby, comforting your older child.

Many women find that nursing a toddler can be used to soothe them during difficult situations and provides them with an opportunity to sit, rest, and reconnect with both their children. There are pros and cons to tandem nursing, ultimately you will have to decide for yourself if you like it.


Some Things to Consider When Tandem Breastfeeding

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Tandem nursing can have a variety of benefits beyond engorgement and letdown control. Tandem nursing can help bond your older child and the new baby. During a time when your toddler may be suffering from feelings of jealousy and detachment, nursing can be a beneficial way to soothe these anxieties.

In addition, studies have shown that children still receive health and nutrient benefits from breastfeeding beyond the first year. Nursing your toddler will continue to provide them with health and emotional support.

Providing Sufficient Nutrients to Your Newborn

When tandem breastfeeding, you may be concerned about providing a sufficient amount of milk to your newborn. It is important that your baby receives an adequate amount of breastmilk to sustain nutrition and weight gain. One of the ways in which this can be remedied is by always nursing your infant first, this will ensure that they are able to nurse for as long as they want and obtain as much milk as they want.

You may also want to nurse one child from each breast. This will ensure that your baby is receiving hindmilk and foremilk. However, if your newborn is able to empty one complete breast you should then put them onto the other breast to continue nursing.

Milk Production Concerns

Another consideration is milk production and if you will have enough milk to nurse two children. In most cases, the demand from both children will stimulate production. Nursing is regulated by supply and demand. When you are nursing more than one child, your body should respond to the increased demands.

Mama’s Well Being

The final consideration is the wellbeing of the mom. Nursing can lead to cracked and dry nipples, but as you have been continually nursing a toddler your breasts should be conditioned. You will likely not have to worry about nipple pain or soreness. Nursing also demands a great deal of the mother’s body. Be sure to get plenty of healthy calories and plenty of sleep.


Does My Newborn Always Need to Nurse First?

During the first few days to weeks your newborn should nurse first. Nursing your infant first will help to set your supply levels and ensure that your infant receives adequate nutrition. After birth you will be producing colostrum, a vital nutrient source for your newborn, so be sure to give them first dibs.

After a short period, you can nurse both children at the same time, one on each breast. You may also want to continue nursing the toddler after your infant, or maintain different nursing schedules in which they nurse at separate times.


What To Do if a “Weaned” Child Asks to Breastfeed Again?

Nursing a newborn can reignite a desire for nursing in a weaned child. Whether or not you choose to begin tandem breastfeeding with your weaned child again is at your discretion. It is also okay to comfort your toddler in other ways instead of nursing again. If you do so, be kind but firm and be sure to devote periods of time and attention solely to your toddler while your partner cares for the baby.

Alternatively, you can begin nursing your toddler again. It may be easier to nurse both children at the same time so that you are not burdened with an additional nursing session or sessions.


What Positions Are Best for Tandem Breastfeeding?

You can tandem nurse using the same positions that you find comfortable for breastfeeding a single child. Some positions you may want to try when nursing two children include:


  • A football hold, in which each child’s body is directed under your arm and behind your body.
  • A cradle hold, in which the baby is positioned across the toddler’s lap.
  • A combination hold, in which one child is in a football hold and the other is in a cradle hold.
  • The toddler leaning on you or kneeling while the infant is cradled. It is likely that your toddler is now adept at nursing in a variety of positions and will be able to acclimate themselves to the position of the newborn.


Tandem nursing can be a great experience and bond both you and your children in ways you never thought possible. If you are considering tandem nursing it may be beneficial to speak with friends who have tandem nursed or seek out those with the first-hand experience to determine if you may be suited to tandem nursing. Check out the Rookie Moms Facebook Group, where you will find a tribe of moms to ask for advice!


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Sterilizing Baby Bottles [Top 5 Best Bottle Sterilizers!]

A bottle sterilizer may seem like a frivolous gift to add to a baby shower registry, but newborns can definitely benefit from using a bottle sterilizer. They make it easier to sanitize bottles, bottle nipples, toys, and anything the baby may put into their mouth. Household germs and those from people around the baby can be harmful to little ones with weaker immune systems. This is especially true for premature babies, babies less than 3 months old, or babies who have been recently sick.

The best bottle sterilizers use steam to treat baby items. Some families choose to use the dishwasher, microwave, or hot soapy water to clean items. However, using a sterilizer will kill bacteria and keep everything safe for newborns. 

Bottle Sterilizer Basics

There’s a difference between a clean bottle and a sterilized bottle. It is important to understand this so that you can make the right choice for you and your family! 

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Why Choose a Sterilizer Over Other Methods?

Using hot soapy water can clean bottles, but it isn’t a guaranteed way to kill germs and bacteria.

The dishwasher is another alternative as it uses hotter water for a longer time to clean bottles. Keep in mind, it also isn’t guaranteed to kill all germs that the baby can find tough to fight off. Without a bottle sterilizer, you can still sterilize bottles by placing them in boiling water for five minutes. Another method is to use the dishwasher if it has a sanitize cycle.

I actually think it’s more convenient to use a bottle sterilizer than running the dishwasher or using a pot of water. A bottle sterilizer is a countertop device that you place bottles, bottle parts, pacifiers, and other small items inside. You can even put your breast pump parts in the sterilizer! Then you just run the cycle which treats the items with steam killing all germs and bacteria.

Types of Bottle Sterilizers

Most bottle sterilizers use electric steam to sanitize but there are also microwave steam sterilizers that you can use in the microwave. The last type of bottle sterilizer uses UV light which uses light to kill germs, just like they use in hospitals and dentist offices. This method is great because it reduces the mess steam sterilizers can create.

There are a variety of bottle sterilizers on the market, which can make it difficult to choose. When selecting your sterilizer consider how many bottles you’ll want to clean at once, how much counter space you have, and if it would be easier to have an all-in-one device that dries and stores, or a simple unit that fits in the microwave when you need things cleaned.


Best 5 Bottle Sterilizers

Electric Sterilizers

1: Papablic Baby Bottle Electric Steam Sterilizer and Dryer

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This is a great all-in-one bottle sterilizer because it sterilizes with high heated steam, dries your items, and is a great rectangular size to keep clean bottles stored in right on the counter. It’s also a great item for families with a newborn because it can sterilize breast pump items, bottle pieces, and pacifiers, almost like a tiny dishwasher for your baby items. In addition to these great features, it also has one dial with simple settings. There is no real need for instructions, simply place your items in, set it, and go about your day.


2: Gourmia Jr. Baby Bottle Sanitizer and Bottle Warmer

Electric sterilizers are also a good choice because they often have more than one function. As in the previous electric sterilizer that dried the items as well as cleaning, this sterilizer also has a bottle warmer. The sterilizer compartment can hold 6 bottles at once, or four bottles with the accessory tray for toys and pacifiers. The bottle warmer has several functions to warm slowly or quickly, and with everything in one unit it saves counter space. This is a great all around bottle sterilizer because of its design, function, and quality.


Microwave Sterilizers

3: Philips AVENT Microwave Steam Sterilizer

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Microwave sterilizers are a good option for something simple and easy to use, without needing a separate appliance. They all have a similar design, a clear dome top with a tray for holding the bottles and the water. This one by Philips holds four bottles at once, either standard neck or wide neck. Items can be sterilized in as little as two minutes and are considered sterile for up to 24 hours if you don’t open the lid after sterilizing. Families often use this as a quick travel option for sterilizing on the go.


4: Dr. Brown’s Steam Sterilizer

Another great microwave sterilizer is this one by Dr. Brown. It has a simple design and fits four Dr. Brown bottles, but is compatible with other brands. The tray steams the bottles and is also useful for small objects like pacifiers. This specific sterilizer comes with a set of plastic tongs and is a solid, simple, microwave option. Microwave sterilizers are also a good beginner sterilizer, as their price point and design make it easy to navigate bottle sterilization for first-time parents.


UV Sterilizers

5: Wabi Baby Touch Panel Function UV Sterilizer and Dryer

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UV bottle sterilizers are a bit more expensive, as they’re more high-tech than the steam sterilizers on this list. The most recommended UV sterilizer is this one by Wabi Baby. The unit sterilizes, dries, and stores bottles which is great for counter space and keeping track of which bottles have been washed and are ready for use. The simple square design and touchscreen buttons give this a futuristic look. Choosing a UV sterilizer could be a good option for the family overall, as this unit can be used to sterilize pretty much anything, which makes it useful beyond bottles to clean cups, toys, and even devices like cell phones.

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How to Choose the Best Twin Carrier [4 of Our Faves!]

A baby carrier is a necessity for many parents as it’s an awesome way to bond with your baby that lets you skip the stroller and tend to your child with your hands-free. If you are expecting twins, you might be wondering what about me? While baby carriers, from slings to traditional Ergos are readily available for single babies, it can be a bit more tricky to find something suitable for twins. Luckily, there are several twin baby carriers on the market right now. They offer all the convenience and appeal of a single baby carrier but cater to both babies at once. They also make it a little easier for one parent to carry, tend to, and bond with twins at the same time.

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What is a Twin Baby Carrier?

Twin baby carriers use the same principle and technology as single carriers. The only difference is that they allow one person to carry both children at once. The most common setups are with one carrier in the front and one in the back. Think; adult sandwich. Some carriers allow both children to be carried on your sides. This position kind of mimics holding and carrying both children at once in your arms, but with the added support of the carrier. Other carriers on the market allow the carrier to be used in tandem, and separately so parents can carry one child at a time. This is a great feature to keep your eye out for!



  • Carry both babies at once: this seems obvious but many carriers are marketed as a “two pack” and not for carrying both babies at one time on one person. If you ever want to do anything hands-free with two babies, this is a must.
  • Easy to use and wear: managing a baby carrier with one baby is tricky as it is. So, a twin baby carrier must be easy to wear, get on and off, and configure with one arm.
  • Comfortable: baby carriers are getting better at distributing weight, but this is especially important when carrying both babies at once. You’ll want a carrier that can handle two babies, without hurting your back, shoulders, or arms.
  • Flexible: many twin baby carriers can carry both at once or be used as individual carriers. This is a must-have so parents can carry one baby at a time, or handle both at once if needed.
  • Safe for both babies: you’ll want a carrier that supports each child appropriately and takes their hips, spine, and weight into consideration. If it isn’t comfortable and safe for baby, it won’t be the right carrier for anyone.


The Best Twin Carriers on the Market Right Now

1: TwinGo Carrier Air

This is the ideal twin baby carrier, designed by a mother of twins! She wanted to be able to soothe both children at once, over having to choose which baby to carry. You will wear this twin carrier with one child on the front and one child on the back. This positioning makes it easier to have hands-free time while also connecting with both babies at once. Each carrier takes the baby’s safety and support into consideration with an ergonomic design and breathable fabric.

In addition to wearing both babies at once, each carrier can be worn solo. This allows both parents to carry a child for one on one bonding time. The sleep hood accessory supports the baby’s head gently to make it easier for sleeping. It also doubles as a sun shield. There are three models of the TwinGo Carrier. The original which has a larger pocket for carrying items, a Lite model which has the pocket removed, and the Air model which has a zipper to reveal a mesh panel for air flow.

2: Malishastik Twin Baby Carrier

If you’ve tried to carry both twins at once you know it’s a handful. This twin baby carrier situates one child on each hip so you can tend to them and carry them with added support. Most baby carriers you wear like a backpack, but this carrier is more like a harness that allows you to hold both babies on your sides. This carrier is also different from other twin carriers in that it is all one piece and doesn’t separate to allow for single baby carrying. It doesn’t have any different configurations, only one baby on each hip. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing if you enjoy the hip configuration, though! The Malishastik twin baby carrier comes in a wide range of colors from standard neutrals to those with a bit more color.

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3: Twingaroo Twin Carrier

Another great baby carrier for twins is this Twingaroo. You can use this twin carrier harness with one or two babies, either as a front wearing carrier with a backpack rear or with both babies, one in the front and one in the back. The backpack style straps are well-padded for comfort. Also, the rear carrier has a backpack style look which makes it easy to carry gear, snacks, and other necessities. There’s also a front pouch for little things like keys and phones. This is great for twin parents as it carries both children and works as a diaper bag, with everything on hand and still hands-free.

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4: Baby Tula Ring Sling (You’ll Need 2 of them!)

If you like the idea of a sling carrier, there is a little trick to make this work with twins. You can simply get two ring slings and put them on opposite sides. You will use the ring sling just as you would with a single baby (x2!). Many moms love the sling because of the closeness it provides with their baby being snuggled right up against them. Check out this video to guide you on how to put the slings on and get the babies in. I would try to explain it to you, but it makes a whole lot more sense when you just see it!

Pictured is a single carrier



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Fenugreek and Breastfeeding; Does it Work & Is it Safe?

Fenugreek and breastfeeding; these are probably two words you will hear side by side often during your breastfeeding journey. Many moms struggle with low supply. It can be frustrating trying to nurse a baby or to pump an adequate amount when you aren’t producing enough. Fenugreek has long been touted as a natural way to increase milk supply. Fenugreek is a herb that is considered a galactagogue, something that increases breastmilk production. It has been in use for centuries even though modern studies produce varying results.

If fenugreek does not sound like the solution for you or if you want to double up on methods, you can also try power pumping! 


What is Fenugreek?

Fenugreek is a plant with small whitish flowers and your typical green leaves. It also produces small tan fenugreek seeds within its pods.

Indian and Asian cuisine, as well as Chinese Medicine, all use Fenugreek. The flavor, when added to dishes, resembles maple syrup. Interestingly enough, mothers who take Fenugreek supplements will also smell of sweet syrup.

Rather recently, Americans have started ingesting it for its many health benefits. Fenugreek can boost testosterone, help control blood sugar in diabetics, and is a galactagogue.

Breastfeeding mothers who take fenugreek pills or drink fenugreek tea often do so hoping it will increase their milk supply. The results are mixed. Some studies show that its role in milk production may be more psychological than physical.

A few moms will notice an increase almost immediately, within the first two to three days, others may have to wait a week or two, and still, some never see an increase. You can use Fenugreek until adequate supply levels resume or long-term.


Is Fenugreek Safe When Breastfeeding?

Fenugreek is a safe substance to consume while breastfeeding. As they use it to flavor artificial maple syrup and you can find it in many cuisines, fenugreek is pretty harmless.

However, it does interact with some medications such as insulin and anticoagulants, so check with your doctor prior to taking it in any form. Take Fenugreek with caution if you suffer from asthma or diabetes.

Fenugreek is in the same genus as peanuts so use care if you have a peanut allergy or have had prior negative reactions to peanuts.

Possible Side Effects

Fenugreek regimens come with a few side effects. Some moms experience intestinal upset. Fenugreek has been associated with diarrhea, upset stomach, and nausea in breastfeeding mothers. These side effects may not only be present in you but in your baby as fenugreek passes through breastmilk.

Fortunately, in most cases, a reduction in the amount of fenugreek or complete cessation provides symptom relief.


Fenugreek and Breastfeeding; Do I Need It?

Determining if you need a galactagogue can be difficult. Most moms assume that they need fenugreek when this isn’t always the case.

If your baby is meeting weight goals set by your pediatrician while exclusively nursing, then your milk supply is probably fine. If your baby is not gaining weight, then you should meet with your child’s doctor or lactation consultant.

There are a few methods and factors that are not good indicators of milk supply. Often, supply levels change with your hormones during your monthly cycle.

Babies can go through cycles as well, and the frequency and duration of nursing rarely indicate supply. They may be having a growth spurt or just experiencing a particularly fussy phase. A baby that is nursing more frequently, fussing at the breast, or seems to drink slowly does not always mean your supply has dropped.

Finally, the feel of your breasts or the sensation of a letdown, or lack thereof, are also not good indicators of the milk supply level.

If you are pumping and not producing enough, or if your doctor has recommended trying to increase your supply, then you can consider fenugreek.


How to Use Fenugreek

Fenugreek comes in capsules, powdered form, seeds, or as a tea. The product you purchase should come with a dosing chart. In most cases, once you experience an increase in milk supply, it is safe to stop consuming fenugreek with no negative effects.

It is best to use Fenugreek in conjunction with other supply increasing techniques. This includes nursing frequently and on demand, reducing the use of pacifiers and/or bottles, and adding in pumping either directly after baby nurses or in between feedings. The removal of milk from the breasts signals to your body it needs to produce more.

Start off slowly by taking fenugreek and using supply increase methods. It is easy to go from having too little milk to having too much. Engorgement can return if you overdo it with your breastmilk production efforts.


Best Brands of Fenugreek

You can take fenugreek either in its pure form or blended with other herbs classified as galactagogues. Breastfeeding moms most commonly take fenugreek in the blended form, but if you would like fenugreek in the pure form we have provided you some of those options as well. 

Pure Fenugreek

Pure fenugreek is often marketed towards the general population and may not target nursing moms directly.

Nutrigold Fenugreek GOLD – a top-rated, gluten-free, GMO-free, organic product produced in the USA

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Nature’s Way Fenugreek – available at most supermarkets and free of artificial colors, flavors, and preservatives.

Solaray Organic Fenugreek – organically grown and 100% vegetarian, produced without fillers.


Fenugreek Blends for Breastfeeding Moms

Fenugreek blends are typically created just for nursing moms. They include a variety of supply increasing herbs along with fenugreek and may even have additions like probiotics.

Pink Stork True Milk – this blend contains fenugreek as well as blessed thistle powder, milk thistle extract, goats rue powder, anise seed powder, and fennel seed powder. A powerful blend with some of the best-known galactagogues.

Mommy Knows Best, Blessed Thistle Herb and Fenugreek Seed – a pared-down blend that works quickly.

UpSpring Milkflow – A powdered drink mix with a mixed berry flavor containing fenugreek, carrot seed, beetroot, anise, and blessed thistle. For women, who have difficulty swallowing pills.

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Fenugreek and Breastfeeding Final Considerations

If you decide fenugreek is for you, carefully review any drug interactions and/or allergies. It is best to discuss taking a fenugreek supplement with your doctor, pediatrician, or lactation consultant prior to starting.

When you take fenugreek, begin with a small amount and increase the dosage very slowly over the course of a few days to weeks. If you notice any symptoms, cut back or stop taking fenugreek.

With so many great brands on the market, you are sure to find one that will help make your nursing journey lasting and pleasant!

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How Long Can Breastmilk Sit Out? + Great Storage Tips!

If you are wondering how long breastmilk can sit out or the best ways to store it, you have come to the right place. Breastfeeding can be a very rewarding journey, but it is not without challenges. Nothing can be more upsetting for a new mom than finding a bottle of breastmilk forgotten on the counter. As tempting as it may be to put it back into the fridge, you must throw it away if you have not properly stored it.

How long breastmilk can be left out depends on the condition of the milk prior to it being left at room temperature. In most cases, four hours is the ideal amount of time breastmilk can be left sitting out.

In this article, we will discuss best practices for breastmilk storage. This includes:

  1. How long breastmilk can sit out
  2. How to store breastmilk safely
  3. When to get rid of breastmilk

You work so hard to pump enough ounces; don’t let those vital nutrients go to waste by improperly storing your milk. These guidelines, if followed, will ensure that your milk is safe for your baby.

How Long Can Breastmilk Sit Out?

According to Experts; This Is How Long Breastmilk Should Sit Out

Breastmilk cannot sit out for long periods of time because of bacteria. When you express your milk, a small number of bacteria end up inside the bottle.

If you store the bottle properly, the bacteria will not have the opportunity to thrive and harm the milk. However, if the milk is left out for longer durations, the bacteria will grow and reach unsafe levels that can be harmful to your baby.

Even though it is best to freeze or refrigerate your milk immediately after you pump, fresh milk can be left out for a short period. Experts agree that four hours is the optimal amount of time fresh milk can be left sitting out.

If fresh milk will be used towards nourishing a healthy, at-home baby then it may be kept at room temperature for up to six hours says Mayo Clinic. However, if the room is particularly warm, this shortens the window. Four hours is the maximum duration of time that milk should sit out in a warm room.

Since milk is a “live food” like yogurt, it can withstand being unrefrigerated to a degree. If you forgot about that bottle on the counter, you may still be able to use it. Good news for new moms suffering through that exhausting post-partum haze!

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How Long Should Breastmilk Sit Out If It’s Been Refrigerated 

If you store your milk properly, either through refrigeration or freezing, these factors will affect the duration that it can be left out.

Previously refrigerated breast milk can sit out for up to four hours. After four hours, use it or throw it away. Once you warm this milk, it should not be put back in the fridge.


If you froze the milk, its lifespan depends on how frozen it remains. If you thaw milk out in the refrigerator but do not warm it up, you can then leave it out for 4 hours. You can also take the milk directly from the freezer, and leave it out at room temperature to thaw.

If you had thawed frozen milk and warmed it planning to feed your baby, but ended up not using it, this milk should be tossed. Some studies suggest that you can place it back in the fridge. However further research is necessary, notes the Mayo Clinic. Some experts suggest that if you warm up milk, you should discard it immediately. Others state that previously frozen, then warmed milk can survive in the fridge for up to twenty-four hours.

The good news is, if you happen to forget and leave that precious bottle of milk on the counter, you have a short window of time to return it to the refrigerator.


Safely Storing Your Milk

Suitable Containers

Our Favorite Glass Containers 

In order for your breastmilk to remain healthy and safe, it should not sit out and also should be frozen and kept in a suitable container. You can store milk in glass, plastic, or freezer bags.

Glass jars with leak-proof lids are an excellent way to store milk. Mason jars are the most common glass option. Using glass means your container is washable and you can use it over and over.

Mason jars are a stackable, space-saving choice for your fridge or freezer. As they are not plastic, you don’t have to worry about chemicals leaching into your baby’s food.

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Bottles That Connect Directly to Your Pump

Plastic bottles or containers are also an option. Sometimes, the plastic bottles will seamlessly attach to your pump. After you express milk into the bottles, you can cap them and place them directly into the fridge or freezer. Be sure to select BPA free bottles to keep the milk safe for your baby.

  • Tommee Tippee with Nature Electric Breast Pump- Tommee Tippee bottles make it a breeze for pumping moms. They have both a manual and electric pump, and you can pump directly into bottles or breastmilk bags. Many bottle brands have a set like this or you can use them with a universal adapter!

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Breastmilk Bags

Plastic breastmilk bags are like bottles. You can pump milk directly into them, then you can seal and store them. These bags remain standing or can lay flat, making them convenient for small freezers. However, unlike bottles or glass, most bags are not reusable.

  • 100 Count Lansinoh Breastmilk Storage Bags– These bags are popular and it is no surprise since they are pre-sterilized with a double lock zipper. You won’t have to clean up any messes from leakage because these bags are so strong. 

Label & Date

No matter the storage container you choose, be sure to label and date all breastmilk while it is still sitting out. On the label place your name, the date, and the quantity in ounces. By dating your milk, there will be no estimating the expiration date.

It’s helpful to store milk in small amounts, typically 2-3 ounces, especially for newborns. By dividing the milk into 2-3 ounce portions, you will waste less. Any milk that you heat or your baby does not finish should be discarded.

A final consideration when freezing milk is to leave an adequate amount of room in the container. Liquid expands when frozen. If you do not have enough room in your container for expansion, the bottle could crack, rendering the milk unusable.

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When to Dispose of Your Milk

It is important to feed your baby fresh milk and to dispose of milk when it becomes unsafe. Expired milk should be tossed. Milk’s lifespan depends on how you store it.

Use milk that is in the freezer within six months. Keep your milk in the back of the freezer rather than in the door. In a deep-freeze freezer milk can last up to twelve months, but six months is still ideal.

Freshly expressed milk kept in the refrigerator is usable for up to five days. However, it is best to use refrigerated milk within 3 days. If you pump and do not have a fridge available, you can keep milk with ice packs in a cooler for up to twenty-four hours.

How the Quality of Breastmilk Changes When It Sits Out

When you store your milk for a long time the quality can change. Over time milk kept in the freezer will decrease in Vitamin C. Additionally, breast milk is constantly adapting to meet the needs of the baby. Milk that was expressed six months ago may not suit the nutritional needs of your baby as well as freshly expressed milk.


Enjoy the Journey

If you store your milk in a clean glass or plastic container, follow the guidelines about when to refrigerate or freeze it, and dispose of it at the proper time, your milk will be safe and healthy for your baby. Breastfeeding is no easy task; keep up the good work!


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75 Breastfeeding Quotes that will Give You All the Feels

Breastfeeding, while (for some reason) a controversial practice, is also a fact of life! For many new moms, breastfeeding can simultaneously be an amazing bonding experience as well as a painful, exhausting, and downright bizarre practice. Whether you are looking for some wisdom from experienced moms or just want to laugh about it so you don’t cry, here’s 75 inspirational, hilarious, or relatable breastfeeding quotes.

75 Breastfeeding Quotes that will Give You All the Feels

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  1. Children don’t just get milk from breastfeeding, they get our energy too. -Stephen Gaskin


  1. Don’t cry over spilled milk. Unless it’s breastmilk, in which case, cry a lot. -Unknown


  1. There are three reasons for breast-feeding: the milk is always at the right temperature; it comes in attractive containers, and the cat can’t get it. -Irena Chalmers


  1. Nursing gives you superhuman powers. How else could I be doing all this when I’m usually a sleepaholic? -Gwen Stefani


  1. Breastfeeding is an instinctual and natural act, but it is also an art that is learned day by day. The reality is that almost all women can breastfeed, have enough milk for their babies and learn how to overcome problems both large and small. It is almost always simply a matter of practical knowledge and not a question of good luck. -La Leche League

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  1. Accomplish one small thing a day. Maybe it’s cleaning that counter, maybe it’s writing one thank-you note. Don’t make the task too difficult. For the rest, you’re healing a uterus; adding millions of cells to your baby’s brain (though it might sometimes feel as if they are being siphoned off from your own); developing his liver, heart, and lungs; boosting his immune system; and maintaining the integrity of his intestines … you’re a busy lady! All while sprawled comfortably on the couch. Multi-tasking raised to an art form! -La Leche League International


  1. Breastfeeding reminds us of the universal truth of abundance; the more we give out, the more we are filled up, and that divine nourishment – the source from which we all draw is, like a mother’s breast, ever full and ever flowing. -Sarah Buckley


  1. Human milk is like ice cream, penicillin, and the drug ecstasy all wrapped up in two pretty packages. -Florence Williams


  1. Something as simple as better breastfeeding could save a million children a year. -Anne M Mulcahy


  1. I feel like a milkmaid, but it is worth it. -Miranda Kerr

  1. As a breastfeeding mother, you are basically just meals on heels. -Kathy Lette


  1. While breastfeeding may not seem the right choice for every parent, it is the best choice for every baby. -Amy Spangler


  1. My opinion is that anybody offended by breastfeeding is staring too hard. -David Allen


  1. The natural power of breastfeeding is one of the greatest wonders of the world. It is about real love, it is about caring for and celebrating the wondrous joy of nurturing a new life, it is about enjoying being a woman. -Anwar Fazal


  1. There is no substitute for mother’s milk. -Martin H. Fischer


  1. Human milk is not just a food; it also complements the immaturity of organs in infants. -Peter Hartmann


  1. Breastfeeding is amazing; you can actually feel your stomach shrink with every feed. -Melanie Brown


  1. Breastfeeding is nature’s health plan. -Author Unknown


  1. Mother’s milk, time-tested for millions of years, is the best nutrient for babies because it is nature’s perfect food. -Robert S. Mendelsohn


  1. They do say breastfeeding is nature’s lipo. -Ana Ortiz

Selma Blair couldn’t be more correct with this breastfeeding quote:

  1. We all have nipples. I don’t care who I offend; my baby wants to eat. -Selma Blair


  1. A little child born yesterday a thing on mother’s milk and kisses fed. -Homer


  1. It seems as if every month brings another study showing that breast milk is what Ponce de LeÃn should have been searching for. -Nicholas Day

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  1. Breastfeeding is a mother’s gift to herself, her baby and the earth. -Pamela K. Wiggins


  1. A newborn baby has only three demands. They are warmth in the arms of its mother, food from her breasts, and security in the knowledge of her presence. Breastfeeding satisfies all three. -Grantly Dick-Read


  1. So quiet down cobwebs, dust go to sleep. I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep. -Ruth Hulburt Hamilton

Speaking the Truth about Breastfeeding

  1. Nursing does not diminish the beauty of a woman’s breasts; it enhances their charm by making them look lived in and happy. -Robert A. Heinlein


  1. The days are long, but the years are short. -Gretchen Rubin


  1. A baby nursing at a mother’s breast… is an undeniable affirmation of our rootedness in nature. -David Suzuki


  1. I see my body as an instrument, rather than an ornament. -Alanis Morissette


  1. If we wear our nursing covers backwards like capes, then everyone can see we’re breastfeeding superheroes. -Cassi Clark

  1. My body, my life, became the landscape of my son’s life. I am no longer merely a thing living in the world; I am a world. -Sarah Manguso


  1. The moment she had laid the child to the breast both became perfectly calm. -Isak Dinesen


  1. Everything has changed, and yet, I am more me than I have ever been. -Iain Thomas


  1. If you have milk, you have milk, and if they’re hungry, they’re hungry. -Salma Hayek


  1. Breastfeeding is an unsentimental metaphor for how love works, in a way. You don’t decide how much and how deeply to love you respond to the beloved, and give with joy exactly as much as they want. -Marni Jackson


  1. I’m an advocate of ‘indiscreet’ breastfeeding – the more that people see babies at the breast, the more normal it will be. -Dr. Jack Newman

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  1. Breasts are a scandal because they shatter the border between motherhood and sexuality. -Iris Marion Young


  1. It’s something that is not necessarily instinctive. There are messes and there are different techniques and styles. -Tatyana Ali


  1. Imagine that the world had created a new ‘dream product’ to feed and immunize everyone born on earth. Imagine also that it was available everywhere, required no storage or delivery, and helped mothers plan their families and reduce the risk of cancer. Then imagine that the world refused to use it. -Frank Oski


  1. When you hold a child to your breast to nurse, the curve of the little head echoes exactly the curve of the breast it suckles, as though this new person truly mirrors the flesh from which it sprang. -Diana Gabaldon


  1. An honour! were not I thine only nurse, I would say thou hadst suck’d wisdom from thy teat. -William Shakespeare


  1. Breastfeeding does not have to be hard. Breastfeeding is natural. With rare exceptions, it becomes hard only because of all the interference caused by the medicalization of birth and unsupportive culture. Animals breastfeed instinctively with no need for supplementation, classes, or support. We as humans also have these instincts. We have become so disconnected. Breastfeeding my children has been one of my greatest joys in life, and I am filled with sorrow when I imagine how many mothers and infants haven’t been able to experience this because of misinformation. -Adrienne Carmack


  1. Breastfeeding is a gift that lasts a lifetime. -Author Unknown


  1. The influence of bottle-feeding makes many people think that ‘nipple sucking’ is breastfeeding. It is not. If the baby sucks his mother’s nipples as he would a bottle teat, it damn well hurts. -Gabrielle Palmer


  1. The whole human world is born from the womb of mothers, and if we can’t make the motherly act of breastfeeding free from stigma in such a world, then it’s an insult to our very existence as a species. -Abhijit Naskar


  1. If anything else woke up every 45 minutes during the night demanding to see my wife’s breasts, you kill it. -Ryan Reynolds


  1. Mother’s milk is soul food for babies. The babies of the world need a lot more soul food. -Ina May Gaskin


  1. Mother knows breast. -Author Unknown

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  1. “After we got home from the hospital, I didn’t shower for a week, and then John and I were like, ‘Let’s go out for dinner.’ I could last only about an hour because my boobs were exploding. When the milk first comes in, it’s like a tsunami. But we went, just to prove to ourselves that we could feel normal for a second.” -Emily Blunt


  1. We should understand the mother and child as a mutually responsive dyad. They are a symbiotic unit that make each other healthier and happier in mutual responsiveness. This expands to other caregivers too. -Darcia Narvaez


  1. It sucks the life out of you. -Kathleen Reed


  1. Does breast milk come in chocolate? -Author Unknown

A Super Hero Breastfeeding Quote

   54. “If we wear our nursing covers backwards like capes, then everyone can see we’re breastfeeding superheroes.” -Cassi Clark

  1. “The feeding schedule surprised me a lot. If you kind of do the math, you’re kind of breastfeeding for 10 hours a day total. It’s very loving and sweet, but it’s not easy. It’s hard to work your entire day around getting her the nourishment she needs because [babies] are just little animals.”-Chrissy Teigen


  1. “Breastfeeding is not sexual, it’s natural.” -Candice Swanepoel


  1. Don’t bite the boob that feeds you. -Unknown


  1. Breast milk is better than any udder milk! -Author Unknown


  1. Mother’s creed: Breastfeed. -Terri Guillemets


  1. Do not nurse a kid who wears braces. -Author Unknown


  1. Who fed me from her gentle breast And hushed me in her arms to rest, And on my cheek sweet kisses prest? My Mother. -Anne Taylor


  1. “Love as powerful as your mother’s leaves its own mark…To have been loved so deeply… Will give us some protection forever.” -J.K. Rowling


  1. There is no way to be a perfect mother, but a million ways to be a good one. -Uknown
  1. Biologically, they’re not made for sexual things; that’s what we’ve done to them. -Alyssa Milano

  1. Breastfeeding is a natural “safety net” against the worst effects of poverty. If the child survives the first month of life (the most dangerous period of childhood) then for the next four months or so, exclusive breastfeeding goes a long way toward canceling out the health difference between being born into poverty and being born into affluence…. It is almost as if breastfeeding takes the infant out of poverty for those first few months in order to give the child a fairer start in life and compensate for the injustice of the world into which it was born. -James P. Grant
  1. My attitude is, if someone sees a little somethin’ somethin’, don’t look if you don’t like it. -Kourtney Kardashian

   67. I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy. I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it. -Art Williams

  1. My birth instructor said this… The breast is like a muscle you haven’t used yet. ‘Remember taking up a new sport?’ she asked… ‘Remember how much the new set of muscles you used surprised you by aching so much?’ Well, she said, that’s what it’s like to use your breasts, for the very first time, for the purpose they have been awaiting all your life. -Julia Glass


  1. “Such advice (re: breastfeeding and HIV positivity) reflects the Western prejudice that artificial milks are innocent until proven guilty, whereas breastmilk is guilty until proven innocent.”- Unknown


  1. We have to stop leaving all the decisions to the so-called decision-makers, but take matters into our own hands; realise that each one of us makes a difference, and that if everyone who cares, acts in a way that is ethical…..then the world would be changed very fast. -Jane Goodall
  1. “If breastfeeding is sexual then a bottle is a dildo.” -Author unknown
  1. “Whoever said ‘there’s no use crying over spilled milk’ obviously never pumped six ounces and accidentally spilled it.” -Author unknown
  1. “Bosoms, are for bedrooms and breastfeeding. Not for any occasions with dignity.” -Kathryn Stockett
  1. There must be reasons why we men are so hipped on breasts as if we’d all been weaned too soon. -Günter Grass
  1. I make milk. What’s your superpower? -Unknown


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Best Co-sleepers to (Safely) Sleep Next to your Little One!

Co-sleeping is a popular concept in which the baby sleeps in the same bed as the parents, especially as a newborn and infant. Other popular options are using a bassinet or basket that allows the baby to sleep in the same room with the parents but in their own bed. Whatever route you choose, they all have their pros and cons. Here are the best co-sleeper options that will help you keep your baby close and easy to tend to through the night, though! 

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A co-sleeper merges the concepts of co-sleeping and the bassinet. Co-sleepers vary in style and layout, but they all help keep baby close while staying safe and secure through the night.

Co-sleepers provide the bonding and closeness components of co-sleeping. However, they add the mobility and security a bassinet provides. This hybrid sleeping arrangement can make it easier to bond through the night, tend to and quiet the baby at all hours, and can remove some of the concerns and worries may have about full co-sleeping with a newborn or small infant.

What is a co-sleeper?

A co-sleeper is a portable bassinet style bed that your infant sleeps in. The co-sleeper does differ from the traditional bassinet in design. They either sit directly against the side of the bed so the baby is within an arm’s reach or sit in the middle of the bed so the baby is close by. No matter the design, a co-sleeper is a smaller, protective bed that allows the baby to get solid rest while also making it easy for parents to tend to and bond with the baby through the night.


  • Easy access: most models have raised rails to keep baby safe, but it must be easy to reach for and tend to the baby while in the co-sleeper
  • Portable: you can move most co-sleepers from room to room and adjust them to the correct height for your bed
  • Comfortable: an ideal co-sleeper is one where your child will sleep through most of the night.
  • Easy to transition: babies typically only sleep in the co-sleeper from ages 0 to 3 months. Once your baby can roll over or push themselves up it’s important to consider transitioning to a crib or full co-sleeping.

Different types

Bedside sleeper: this co-sleeper type looks like a raised bassinet with legs that support the sleeper and keep the baby elevated to match the height of your bed

Nest co-sleeper: this type is very similar to the “Moses Basket” and looks like a sleeper basket. This type is placed in the middle of the bed to keep the baby safe while right next to you. These can also be considered travel sleepers, as they can be moved around the house and can collapse to make travel easier.

The Top 10 Best Co-sleepers

Bedside Co-Sleepers

1: Baby Delight Beside Me Bedside Sleeper

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A great option for co-sleeping is this bedside sleeper. There are straps to attach the co-sleeper to the bed for added security. This bedside sleeper can also convert to a stand-alone bassinet and has high mesh walls to allow airflow while keeping baby safe. There’s a side panel that unzips, allowing bedside access through the night. The legs of this co-sleeper are adjustable in 6 positions, giving you the opportunity to customize the height to your bed. It also comes with a waterproof mattress cover and fitted sheet to protect the fiber filled mattress.

2: Mika Mickey Bedside Sleeper

This co-sleeper also converts to a standing bassinet, which makes it easy to sleep with baby close by at night and provides a safe space for naps throughout the day. There are straps to secure the co-sleeper to the side of the bed and one large side panel opens to give parents access through the night. There are 7 height positions available to provide the perfect height for co-sleeping. The two long sides are mesh paneled, the short sides are closed and this co-sleeper is portable giving you space for baby to nap during the day.

3: Arm’s Reach Concepts Mini Ezee Bedside Bassinet

A great co-sleeper that’s portable and offers under the bed storage is this bedside bassinet. The neutral color makes it perfect for any bedroom and the 4-inch sleep nest height makes it compatible with most bed frames. The rails are all mesh-lined and there are two end pockets along with under the bed storage. This is a solid option for families that want to co-sleep but also wanted the added security and safety of a bedside bassinet. The attachment strap and resistant plate offer a secure place for your baby to rest.

4: Simmons Kids by the Bed City Sleeper

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For a simple, open, and adjustable co-sleep consider this one by Simmons. The design is very simple and elegant with a grey neutral fabric and grey support legs. The L-shaped wheel legs are designed to fit under the bed, sofa, or chair so you can keep your baby close and safe while sleeping. The low profile sleeping nest provides access from the top, so there’s no need to open or close the side in order to reach your baby throughout the night. You can adjust the height of the nest with a button and there are two side pockets for storing anything you might need at hand.

5: Millard Side Sleeper Bedside Bassinet

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Another great side sleeper bassinet is this one, which can operate as a co-sleeper as well as a stand-alone bassinet. There’s a unique design that provides top access handles to move the bassinet around the house and a wide side panel for access through the night. There are three height options and simple legs that allow you to place the bassinet closer to the bed as well as slide them under the couch. The high walls are solid paneling for added security.

Nest Co-sleepers

1: Baby Delight Snuggle Nest

For those that are looking for an option to have baby sleep in their bed but with some added protection, this snuggle nest could be a perfect choice. The two rigid and vented walls help keep baby cool and keep baby separated from the rest of the bedding. The shape and style of this nest offers easy access to the baby all night, and the low light nightlight gives parents a hand when it comes to tending to the baby in the dark. The sleeper also folds in half for easy transport through the house or while traveling.

2: Baby Lounger and Baby Nest Sharing Co-sleeper

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Another good option is this baby nest for co-sleeping. The removable bumpers and mattress make it easy to clean and the adjustable end gives the baby a bit more legroom as they get older. The low profile sides provide a comfortable and soothing environment for baby while also providing easy access while in bed. This nest is fully machine washable and completely portable. It’s perfect for using throughout the house as well as in bed and makes traveling easier as your baby will always be sleeping in their own bed.

3: CubbyCove Classic Breathable Portable Nest

Co Sleeper Options

For a super simple, classic co-sleeper nest check out the CubbyCove Classic. This nest is a flat, simple, padded sleeper with an adjustable canopy for added shade. It’s a great option for new parents or those looking for something to operate as a co-sleeper nest, a lounger, and something to use for tummy time while keeping baby safe. It’s sturdy, one-piece design makes it easy to move around the house without losing pieces or having to re-assemble. You can move this next with one hand, making it easy for parents throughout the day and night. Check it out here!

4: SwaddleMe By Your Side Sleeper

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This option is designed very simply with one full mesh panels surrounding the sleeping nest. This is a great option for day and night use, as it’s easy to see the baby through the mesh and offers a large sleep space as well as wide top access. The metal frame folds flat which makes it easy to carry through the house as well as use for travel. It includes a mattress pad and a fitted sheet. This is a great co-sleeper and bassinet for travel with it’s simple yet sturdy design and overall functionality.

5: Abreeze Baby Bassinet and Lounger

This 100% cotton portable crib gives all the feel of co-sleeping with the added protection of using a co-sleeper or convertible bassinet. The lounger is made of soft cotton to cushion and comfort your sleeping baby. The bumpers are high enough to provide added protection while also offering each access to check on the baby or tend to them throughout the night. The construction and materials make this lounger perfect for co-sleeping, tummy time, and use around the house.


The best co-sleeper is one that you’ll use every night! You don’t want to have to worry about navigating the pieces, adjusting the height, or managing a flap. The bedside co-sleepers offer easy access without having the baby directly in bed. On the other hand, the nests go directly into the bed and give baby their own safe space throughout the night. Many of these co-sleepers are very portable. This will save you from having to buy more than one bassinet or space for baby to sleep beyond the bedroom. 


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How to Make a Milk Baby Bath + All the Benefits

Breast milk is full of valuable nutrients for your baby. Babies who are breastfed receive almost innumerable benefits concerning healthy growth and development. But many moms don’t realize that you can use breastmilk externally as well. Breast milk baths can help to treat and prevent cradle cap, eczema, diaper rash and moisturize your baby’s skin. Read on for how to add a little “liquid gold” to your baby’s bath.

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The Benefits of a Breast Milk Bath for Your Baby

Breastmilk for Moisture

Breastmilk contains a few different types of acids that soothe and heal baby’s soft and tender skin. Oleic acid is an omega fatty acid that is found in human tissue. This acid is essential to moisturizing and preventing the effects of aging. Palmitic acid, a saturated fatty acid, is another intense moisturizer. Linoleic and vaccenic acid are two additional acids found in breastmilk. Linoleic acid soothes inflammation, calms spots, and provides hydration. Vaccenic acid nourishes and protects against the harsh conditions outside the womb.

A Milk Bath Can Treat Baby Acne

Breastmilk baths can help to heal red spots and acne. Acne is common in babies as they receive some fluctuating hormones from their mother when they nurse and have remaining hormones in their blood. Lauric acid, which is in both in breastmilk and coconut oil, is an antibacterial agent. A few drops of breastmilk in the bath can help reduce acne breakouts and clear red spots and discoloration.

Breastmilk to Heal Minor Irritations

Babies can be further soothed by breastmilk baths when they are suffering from minor burns, cuts, or insect bites. Immunoglobin-A, a component of breastmilk, helps to stave off infections by fighting bacteria. If your baby has irritation or itchiness from insect bites or minor scratches a breastmilk bath is a healing and soothing home remedy.

Breastmilk to Soothe Diaper Rash

Bacteria and yeast on babies skin can also cause diaper rash. The antibacterial properties and soothing acids of breastmilk can calm inflamed and painful skin. The addition of breastmilk to a bath will promote healing and calm irritation.

A Milk Bath Can Prevent and Treat Cradle Cap, Psoriasis, and Eczema in Your Baby

Skin problems can be quite common in babies. Some frequent issues include cradle cap, psoriasis, and eczema.

Cradle cap…

is essentially the result of an overproduction of sebum, or your skin’s natural oils. This buildup of sebum results in crusty and oil patches, commonly on the scalp. It can present as yellowish or brownish scales on the head. It doesn’t require medical treatment and isn’t harmful to your baby, even if a little itchy and unsightly.


isn’t prevalent in babies but has been known to develop in their diaper area. Psoriasis is a buildup of skin cells. This results in scaly and thick patches. The symptoms of psoriasis are cracked and dry skin with some bleeding as well as itching and burning.


is yet another skin condition babies get that can be treated with a breast milk bath. It is somewhat common in children and babies. Many parents do confuse it with other skin conditions like cradle cap, though. Eczema is spots or patches of rough, scaly, and red skin. It is typically itchy or minorly painful. You will usually find it in the creases of your baby’s skin including the creases of their joints or between skin folds. Unlike cradle cap which is the buildup of sebum, eczema is caused by the production of too few natural skin moisturizers resulting in dry skin.

Many parents swear by the use of breastmilk baths to soothe these skin conditions. However, there is no scientific research or evidence behind this. You should still get an evaluation and treatment from your pediatrician if your baby has a rash that worries you. In the meantime though, for relief at home, a breastmilk bath could be the answer. The components in breastmilk can provide moisture and healing. Nourishing and calming cracked skin. They can also work to break up the collection of sebum and skin cells relieving itching.

How to Make a Milk Bath for Your Baby

To provide the highest concentration of breastmilk you should use an infant-sized baby bathtub instead of a full-sized bathtub. We love The First Years Sure Comfort Newborn to Toddler Baby Bath Tub for infants and the Boon Naked Collapsible Baby Bathtub for toddlers!

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Step 1

Fill the bath with warm water, testing it on your inner wrist to make sure it is not too hot or too cold. Once you have an adequate amount of warm water for a bath add the breastmilk.

Add about 180ml to 300ml of breastmilk, or about 6 to 10 ounces. The milk can have been previously refrigerated or frozen or even freshly expressed. However, you should make sure it is warm prior to adding it to the bath.

Step 2

Pour in the milk and stir the bath with your hand until the water appears milky and whitish. Place the baby in the bath and bathe as usual. Be sure to pour the water gently over babies arms and neck. Slowly and carefully pouring the water on your baby’s scalp can assist with cradle cap. Use a washcloth to dab the milk bath on your baby’s face, paying close attention to their cheeks.

Step 3

Breastmilk is a valuable substance and creating a breastmilk bath uses quite a few ounces. If expired milk is not spoiled, but past the date in which you can safely feed it to your baby, you can consider using it for a breastmilk bath. Breastmilk can only last in the refrigerator for three to five days and in the freezer for six months or less. If your breastmilk has passed its expiration date and is not foul-smelling, chunky, or moldy it should be safe to use in a bath.

If you produce excess milk or pump additional milk to prevent engorgement save it! You can then use it for a breastmilk bath.


Breastmilk can be nourishing and soothing for babies. It is full of essential nutrients and acids that moisturize and heal babies’ skin. Giving your baby a breastmilk bath can prevent and calm a variety of skin ailments, keeping your little one’s skin baby-soft.


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